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Grateful\u00a0Heart\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Ann Zhou<\/p>\n<p>Thanksgiving is near. Do single moms have things to be thankful? In fact, single moms have many to be thankful, not only on Thanksgiving but always! Ten years being a single mom, I experienced many hurdles in my life. Fortunately, when I have thankful thoughts, I regain the power to live on. Twenty years ago, when my marriage was shattered, my son was only 1.5 years old. A sister comforted me by saying: &#8220;Thank God, you hit the jackpot!&#8221; I did not understand her remark and thought she was joking with me! However, from her firm tone and honest expression, I felt her sincerity. She was always grateful even facing adversities. One time, her car broke down outside her house. She was still grateful when recounting the incident to me, &#8220;God is really wonderful. Just as I needed help, He sent a neighbor to fix my car, like sending me an angel!&#8221; She never had negative reaction to anything. I wondered: &#8220;Why doesn\u2019t she complain, get angry or sad ever? It appears that she always handles life with a sense of humor.\u201d For the last decade, this sister became my role model. I decided to learn from her. I am willing to give up my thoughts to God by constantly giving thanks. The more I let go, the more thankful I am! Thank God for a new breath of life as I wake up; give me health, food and all my needs; drive safely to take my son to school, to work; even do daily shopping, cooking, washing, housework, etc. Thank the Lord! As a single parent, I am thankful that I can assume the dual responsibilities of both father and mother. I overcome life challenges imposing disciplines to manage emotion, time, and money. I have become a teacher, a coach, and even a friend to my son. When dealing with predicaments, thank God that I do not drill on the obstacles but rather I open my mind and eyes to God for hope. I always submit thanksgiving prayers which reinforce my faith to rely on God. Indeed, whenever I pull through from a dilemma, the grace of God makes me feel so content. I am so grateful that my weakness is protected by the mighty God.<\/p>\n<p>Today, my son is almost 21, healthy and joyful, attending college. Recalling the &#8220;winning a jackpot&#8221; comment by that sister years ago, somehow it seems to make sense. Suffering is blessing in disguise. I actually rebuilt my life after a broken marriage. This is entirely God\u2019s grace and blessing! I have been serving in Heralds for eight years, a true reflection of God\u2019s grace. 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