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As a teenager whose parents are going through midlife crisis, I have a lot to learn, but so do you!<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>Please remember this period of my \u201crebellion\u201d is my time of searching for identity. I am learning to express my feelings and thoughts, not trying to sing a different tune. Don\u2019t forget that I have to live independently and face the world by myself in a few years.<\/li>\n<li>Whether you intend to encourage or discipline me, please be patient and treat me with kindness. I don\u2019t need you to stay with me all the time, but I still hope that you would spend more time to understand me.<\/li>\n<li>Trust me! By doing so, you empower me with love because I need your compassion, acceptance, respect and empathy. I need to know that as I grow, you are more at ease with me and are willing to let go.<\/li>\n<li>Please don\u2019t be angry with me for too long and don\u2019t limit my freedom too much. 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