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Falling in love is easy, wouldn\u2019t you agree?<\/p>\n
Boy meets girl; boy asks girl out; girl is late for their date by an hour (and couldn\u2019t call because\u00a0these were pre-cell phone days, so boy waited patiently and may or may not have had to take\u00a0care of some business in the bushes \u2013 thank God it was dark!); girl finally arrives (and is very\u00a0sorry, but traffic coming home across the bridge was bad); boy and girl go to dinner, fall in love\u00a0and get married.<\/p>\n
See how simple that was?<\/p>\n
Now, let\u2019s fast forward some 4,985 days. Boy and girl are now older and wiser wireless and have\u00a0most of their daily conversations via text; boy lovingly plucks girl\u2019s gray hairs with an eyebrow\u00a0tweezer \u2013 those short ones on top of her head keep growing back!; girl discovers\u00a0with some\u00a0amusement that boy has a (very recent)\u00a0passion for gardening; boy and girl are constantly<\/p>\n
interrupted by two clones of themselves, but do their best to stay in love and be connected.<\/p>\n
Eeks. Life and love are not so simple anymore, is it?<\/p>\n
Sure, life is a lot more complicated now. But\u00a0it\u2019s also a lot more real. Falling in love is easy\u00a0because it\u2019s all about the unknown, the unexpected, the discovering. Seeing someone at their best\u00a0and showing the best of yourself. It\u2019s about the feelings\u00a0someone else makes you feel.<\/p>\n
I used to think falling in love was more fun than staying in love. Well, sometimes it is, but the\u00a0truth is that\u00a0real joy comes more from giving than receiving.<\/p>\n
Staying in love is all about the giving \u2013 how you make someone else feel. It\u2019s the supportive\u00a0words you offer after her long day at home with the kids; the embrace you give when he is\u00a0feeling defeated from work; the ability\u00a0to understand just exactly how the other person is feeling\u00a0by looking at him because you know him better than anyone else.<\/p>\n
And that part\u00a0of love \u2013 the already-discovered, the expected, and the known \u2013 is\u00a0pretty awesome.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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