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Killing Your Spouse with Kindness HFRC – Ruth<\/p>\n
I watched \u201cWar Room\u201d this week. It was a good movie with fairly good acting, funny andtouching moments. I came away with two reminders: one, that prayer is powerful and it works, and two, that marriages can be torn down by a single word.<\/p>\n
The movie starts out with a husband and wife who do what husbands and wives do on occasion \u2013 they fight. With furrowed brows and clenched fists, they exchange mean words, throw around accusations and blame, and retreat to their own corners till the<\/p>\n
next match. Every time they open their mouths, you know what comes out is not going\u00a0to be pretty. And with each word they spew, the tension on the screen grows and grows\u00a0until you wonder if the characters\u2019 relationship will soon be irreparable.<\/p>\n
But through a series of events and the not-so- by-chance help of an older, the wife starts\u00a0changing her ways. The change comes slowly, but surely, as she renews her love for\u00a0her husband and begins praying for him. Her heart softens to the point where she no\u00a0longer has anything negative to say to him. Her words and attitude toward him are so\u00a0different that at one point he wonders if she secretly poisoned his meal, and switches\u00a0dinner plates with her when she\u2019s not looking. And with time, God answers the wife\u2019s\u00a0prayers and works in the husband\u2019s life and heart to soften him up, too\u3002<\/p>\n
Now I don\u2019t profess to have a perfect marriage, but one thing I do appreciate about our\u00a0relationship is the courtesy we extend toward one another. Oh, we have our share of\u00a0disagreements and messy moments that require lots of forgiveness and humility to\u00a0move past, but most of the time, we try to be kind with our words. Because we know\u00a0that words have the power to heal or destroy. As in the words of Proverbs 15:1, \u201cA\u00a0gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.\u201d<\/p>\n
It\u2019s amazing what a simple \u201cplease\u201d or \u201cthank you\u201d can do to soften your spouse\u2019s heart.\u00a0Or what the simple act of willingly getting out of a warm, cozy bed to go downstairs to\u00a0stick the wet clothes in the dryer means to the spouse who gets to stay in the warm,<\/p>\n
cozy bed . It\u2019s just plain and simple courtesy, but when each word and act of kindness\u00a0are added together, they can produce a mutually respectful and loving marriage.<\/p>\n
All it takes is one kind word or one kind gesture to tip the scale toward kindness. And it\u00a0just takes one person to start. So let\u2019s be that one person.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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